The following are samples of just some of the services we provide:
Starting The Conversation: Caroline will meet with the children to discuss their answers to the aging quiz. This will help to better understand the knowledge of their parents communication plan with all family members which is vital for an effective plan of care. We will help you begin to talk to your parents about the difficult topics and facilitate the discussion as need. Our service will create an Aging Plan for you and assist with the implementation of the plan every step of the way.
Providing Resources: Preparing for Care will provide you with a list of all the documents you need for every step of this process. We will also build you a support network of physicians, elderly lawyers, support groups and financial planners you will know you can trust.
Aging In Place: Preparing for Care will direct you to a home modification specialist to ensure safety of the senior within their home environment in regards to design and build modifications. We will deliver reputable home care companies to provide caregiver services both medical and non medical.
Housing Options: Determining the best housing option for your parent takes time and knowledge of the various options that are available: Independent, Assisting, Nursing and Rehabilitation. Caroline's father has lived with her for four years, lived in assisted living, and been in rehab for three months so she has the experience of dealing with the emotions that are tied to each individual placement.
Parent Care Transition Conversation: - Caroline will bring her knowledge from the past five years from being her father's sole caregiver and will provide the tools to teach you how to confront the hard questions as opposed to shying away from them. The information you gather through these transisition conversations will then be put into a proactive aging plan. She will assist the family members with the pros and cons of options available. The costs and how to pay for services, what to look for, how to know when to act upon the chosen option, and how to deal with family conflict, caregiver stress that is a sensitive, often difficult but at some point all of us will face. The most important thing you can do for your aging parents, your own family and most important yourself is this: Step in and be prepared for what might come. You will find yourself taking on a strange new role, at least for the moment; - these conversations force you and your parents to acknowledge that they will decline and need help and that they are indeed mortal.
A good plan can mean fewer accidents and a longer, improved quality of life for both you the caregiver and your parents. Virginia Morris, AARP author in How to Care for Aging Parents writes, "Think about your reluctance and the reasons for it. Contemplate your role and the risks of both talking and failing to talk. Remember, as uncomfortable as it might be, talking about the worst case scenarios won't make them come true, and refusing to talk about them won't make them go away. Ignoring the inevitable will only leave you unprepared for a crisis that is sure to come."